Am I available?
Some people are actually NOT available but they think they are. Some actions or ways of life make you NOT available in the ‘Singles market’ which is actually oversaturated. There are some mindsets you may have which unknown to you may be sending out vibes to men that you are not available eg Do you always walk around with this thought ‘there are no good men/women anymore’ whilst praying for one? Honey, daz not ghanna wok. As a (wo)man thinketh in his heart, SO IS HE!!! Also if you are carrying emotional baggage, you may think you are available but you are not.
The energy flowing from you ain’t in line with what you praying for. It is like a house that has a ‘Welcome to our home’ doormat but yet a big dog right at the entrance. You know you ain’t welcome. Emotional baggage would keep getting in the way of conversations with even remotely interested opposite sex and ain't nobody got time to continually hear about your ex John who dumped you or whatever horrid happened in the past. Please let God heal any hurt from your past. Also, are you dating someone you KNOW you cannot marry whilst yet claiming ‘Single’? Eg dating a married man or some ‘bad guy’.
You may be thinking you are just hanging with that person in the meantime till the ‘Mr. Right’ comes along but honey, you are sending signals even you don’t know about and people can pick those signals. You are emotionally involved no matter what you think. Usually, when you meet someone, you are NOT as interested as a full single person is, only you don’t know.
(To be continued...)
Compiled by
Leke Beecroft
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